My best friend revealed to me not long ago, that some one asked her to get married. Some kind of proposed I guess.
I had a shock of my life!
I don't even know that guy, she just told me like that, it's indeed shocking!
So, I was being a total jerk. I told her all the excitements that she'd be missing if she gets married at this age.
Not to be jealous or anything, but I was simply being selfish. All I was thinking was that, "How am I going to go shopping if she really gets married right now?" or or or "I can't hang out with her anymore after this, not after she got married with I don't know who that guy is!"
I was thinking straight. I'm sorry.
I should think more on her side. She seemed puzzled as well. And I shouldn't be telling all those things that totally not helping her decision. Well, it does help but it is just not it.
From now on, I'll be more rational and supportive. To my dearest best friend, I really really really love you and if you really really really think and have already given a deep thought
I don't wanna be such a jerk friend, and keep you from what you really want. Follow your heart, and most importantly, solat istikarah if you have to. hee.
Since we'll be graduating soon (well, I have another semester ahead), I don't see it as a problem anymore to think about marriage. Maybe your time has come.
As for me, I'll be fine. I'll be your fairest bridesmaid, if it going to happen this soon laa . teehee,
So, here I even have a picture of a perfect wedding outfit. I'm sure you will love it as much as I am. hee.
Credit picture to tealovecoffee. :D